Like you Enterprise, I go to events to fly. I don't go to dodge everybody else's plane the whole time. I have zero interest in going to the larger events anymore. Events where the team pilots are flying just about every minute of the day hold no interest for me at all. I understand wanting to show off your sponsors product, I really do. But when you essentially use the entire airspace flying at full throttle very aggressively for just about the whole time the event is going, it makes it really hard for others to enjoy their time there. Seems to me that a lot of representing your sponsor could also be done by making the rounds on the ground, talking to people, helping them with their questions, or their planes, and spending less time flying. Fly a couple times per hour, like most of the rest of the attendees do maybe, and spend time socializing with the other pilots and promoting that way. I have seen a number of events where team pilots all congregate together and talk in their own group, and don't seem to have much time/desire to talk to the common folk.
I really enjoyed the Ft. Smith FLI event a couple years ago, and then last year the Kennett, MO 3dbash. Both were low key, about 40-50 pilots there and to me were tons of fun.