@Wacobipe , I hand sanded all of my resin starting with 80 grit then 120. That was done using a self adhesive sandpaper stuck on small oak blocks, foam blocks or a flexible sanding pad. My airplane is pretty curvy, if I was doing a nice flat wing I would use a larger foam block. I sanded it like that after the first and second coats. Before priming I went over all of it with a piece of 220 grit on a soft flexible block just to make it a little smoother before primer. I haven't sanded my primer yet, but when I do I will use 320 dry on a pad, then 400 wet. You could also use 600 if you wanted. If I was painting a high metallic finish I would do the 600 step, but on a solid color base clear it's really not necessary. The only wet sanding I do is that 400/600 grit of the primer before paint.
And yes, hand sanding sucks. It's a tedious labor intensive job that sucks up way to much time. But as my auto shop teacher back in the late 70's used to say "There's never enough time to do it right, but there is always enough time to do it over".
A little tip on dealing with pinholes that may show up during priming. The easiest way I've found to find them is to take the brightest flashlight you have and shine the beam parallel across the freshly primed surface. With gray primer a pinhole looks like a cave when viewed that way. They really show up well. You can use a pencil and a very light touch to circle them. Don't press hard or you'll damage the surface. Then I usually use some Dolphin glaze and smear it on with a small squeegee or most of the time with my finger. I do this before sanding the primer and force it down into the pinhole leaving as little on the surface as possible to make sanding easier.
Here are some of the blocks I use. Other than these I have several oak scraps that have sandpaper stuck on them that I use constantly. The block on the left is from Dura Block. They make nice stuff and have a ton of shapes and sizes. The other is a soft curvable block for rounded areas.