What is it that the ARFs can not match? I mean, the ARFs seem to be built extremely well these days. I have never seen one of these things so I don't know....
First comes the mindset. US kit designers took this very seriously because of the competition and money. The actual design of the wing was a long R&D process and to this day, ripping off someone else wing makes you a scumbag. I've been to events where planes are housed overnight in a barn/hangar and next thing you know, guys are in there with tape measures trying to figure our why one plane seemed to have an advantage over the other. The Chinese look at this more as a plane to fly and crash and buy another one, and price it so that this is not too painful. When guys crashed a kit, they repaired it quickly, and it flew again. When a guy flew it nose first into the ground and lost a kit-built, they cried for a long time and many never recovered, or could manage the cost of replacement.
Most of the good kits then and today are sheeted foam for light strength and rigidity. It's the same composite engineering used in full scale, but with different material, and at least the kit designer that I knew personally, understood engineering principles. Any designer or builder that does not know the basics of Young's modulus principles of stress and strain, IMO, is really nothing more than a furniture builder that likes airplanes. Nothing against furniture builds, of course.
I've seen kits flying in IMAC competition that are 15 years old and look brand new, and still fly as tight as the day they were built. Epoxy and aliphatic resins were used, thicker Monokote, stringers were 10mm and ply was 3mm and 6mm three-ply to keep it strong and light. I had eleven flat nylon Dubro hinges in each wing on my 35% and each hinge was pinned with four wood dowel or the shaft of round wood toothpicks. I never used a drop of thin CA in any of the builds I was involved in, and used medium CA only for pinning hinges.
All this strength, and my 35% with a 103 inch wing, came in at 21 pounds all-up with a full tank of fuel. Proper materials selection, and attention to design and engineering principles, is how you do this. Every angle is straight, except those not intended to be (and there are a few of these). If you never spent a winter putting a top quality kit together, patiently, rolled it out in the spring, and did a slow roll over the runway using only aileron with no programming on the maiden flight, you should add it to your bucket list.