Ok, this is what I did, with the help of Wayne...
set up two logical switches.
1st logical switch is throttle stick all the way down, "and" the P5, lever, has to be all the way towards me, like 95% or greater. so when throttle stick is all the way down, and the lever on the right is towards me, it activates it.
2nd logical switch is (1st logical switch above, named "spoileron") "and" setting the low idle switch on.
meaning, the only way to activate this, is, if the airplane is in a. low idle mode, b. the throttle stick is all the way down, and c. the P5 lever, is towards me all the way.
then,
I went to flight modes, and added a flight mode, named it "spoileron", and placed it right above low idle , in regards to priority.
then, I went to make a mix, the mix is "elevator to aileron", and used the "V", such that, when I use up elevator, it activates both ailerons to come up all the way, I made it 85%, and it works with high rates on.
then, went to "sounds on control", and added a sound, to the P5 lever, it states "alarm", anytime the lever is placed in the position towards me, and it repeats it, until the lever is turned off.
SO, no way the lever can be in "on" position during me flying, cause it will be screaming in my ear, non stop " ALARM", over and over.....